Hey all,
I had a bit of a brain freeze and posted the following discussion in the forum section of this website. So if you've read it there already, then you get it twice here ;).
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Hi everyone,
I hope your new year is going well.
Below is an excerpt for our upcoming Regression Hypnosis Guidebook (part of our Releasing Emotions through Regression Hypnosis DVD Program)
Let's hear your thoughts on how the subconscious mind communicates and its relation to Regression Hypnosis.
Best wishes for the new year,
Matt Sison
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Have you ever seen someone try to talk to someone else that does not understand their language?
Randy Shaw writing: “I once saw a Postal clerk having a difficult time with a customer that spoke Spanish but almost no English. The Postal worker began talking very loud, as if the Spanish speaking person could understand better if he yelled. It was funny to watch but silly to think that talking louder will help the other person understand a different language.”
You may think this assessment is ludicrous but many hypnotists are trying to yell at the subconscious minds of their clients by attempting to overpower it with direct suggestions, logic, psychological treatments, or tricks of language and speech - instead of speaking its language and getting its willing cooperation.
By mis-understanding and probably unknowingly dis-respecting it (by the perception of the subconscious mind), instead of seeking cooperation with the subconscious mind, you risk disturbing its “perfect” world and causing it to bring more evidence to the contrary of your conscious goal – causing it to turn the subconscious mind into a 600 pound gorilla that then makes the problem or issue of the client much worse (which it may do because it has a calling to fulfill whether the hypnotist understands that calling or not. What is that calling? To secure the personal definitions of the client; their accumulative programming.)
Once you understand and can teach your clients to listen to, respect and respond to their feelings, you not only increase your effectiveness, you get your clients into hypnosis with a fraction of the effort that traditional inductions require, because the subconscious mind is listening - when you respect its language. And you will acquire a lot more compliance. It becomes a flow that once you fully consciously grasp, you’ll never want to go back to the rigidness of formal inductions - or hammering hypnotic suggestions into the head of clients, in a battle against all that power in the subconscious mind.
Later we will talk about WIIFM: what’s in it for me. This concept is very crucial to getting increased cooperation from the subconscious mind, because it does not give a darn about logic or obligation. The Subconscious Mind focuses on feelings, emotions, sensations, impressions, patterns; because it is activated by perceptions, and reacts (works) out of associations and familiarity (not historical correctness or truth).
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